Welcome to... FACCSD.There is plenty of support out there. It is not shameful to use them. You are not begging. It is your right. You need help to be able to look after the person/persons you are caring for. There are organisations that will give you support and advice, which can also be used to help sufferers, family members and friends. They will support you during times of crisis and find necessary information for you, which you may require as a carer.